Understanding Teens and How Shame Affects Academics with Nicole Hunter
As kids enter their teen years, we often recognize some dramatic shifts in preferences, priorities, communication, and decision-making skills, to name a few. Without understanding the larger context of how the brain develops during these years, we risk reacting instead of responding as we relate to them.
In this episode, I’ve invited Nicole Hunter to join me. Nicole has been investing in young people for years as a youth pastor, a high school Bible teacher, and a parent of four now-adult children. Nicole helps us understand what motivates teens, especially regarding shame triggers. She has some great suggestions for how to coach them through taking responsibility for their choices and developing more empathy as they relate to others.
In this episode you’ll learn:
Why a teen’s vulnerabilities may trigger our own shame
Why we need to be quicker to coach than criticize young people
How often teens are questioning what is wrong with them
Examples of behaviors that help teens avoid feeling shame
Advice for how to strike a balance in encouraging your teen towards excellence without excessive pressure